wolf's

Family dynamics can be very similar to a pack of wolves. Who is the dominent one, who is a worker, who has status and who eats first/last. When you try and change your behavior. Your also changing the way people react to you. Your/my family, anyone's family is used to a routine and by changing your routine your upsetting the balance of the family as a whole. People don't want to change and when you do they get upset because it, "feels different". Kathy's acting up, she's asserting herself, she's a pain is the ass. Oh well deal with it people.

Last night my sister told me to mind my own business because I'm stirring up the status quo. I'm shaking the apple cart, more like kicking it softly. I'm speaking out on behalf of my mother and by doing so this effects my sister's furture plans.

This happens within any family so it isn't anything new. It's just new to me! It's hard to stand up for yourself when you've been a doormat all your life and say "Hay, this ain't right". It's hard to speak up and face the bully. Life can be very bullish. Us doormats need all the samson's we can find.